New Member Spotlight!

New Member Spotlight!

Nicole Toledo

I'm Nicole and I'm from Fort Myers, Florida. My major is exploratory. I love to dance and go out with friends, or have netflix and movie nights! My favorite meal at the house has been barbecue chicken. I'm most looking forward to just really getting to know my sisters, becoming super close, and having that indescribable bond with them. Also, big/little week! 

Sierra Stull 

I'm Sierra and I'm from New Smyrna Beach, Florida. My major is Biology. I really like to sing and play guitar. I was a swimmer for ten years and now I just swim at the Leach sometimes! MY favorite meal at the house has been shrimp pasta with angel hair. I'm so excited about everything! But short term, I'm really excited about getting initiated, getting my big and family, and our first formal!

New Member Spotlight!

New Member Spotlight!

Dazil Carrion

I'm Dazil and I'm from Miami, but considering I constantly express my love for it, I think everyone knew that. For those of you that don't know me I'm very into music, shopping, and embarrassingly, organizing things. So if you ever need to get anything in order I'm your girl! My favorite meal at the house so far I'm gonna have to say is the spaghetti and meatballs. I feel like I'm at alpha chi all day everyday, so I'm really looking forward to really getting to know all my sisters personally. Love you all already!

Lauren Flannery

I'm Lauren and I'm from Verona, New Jersey. My major is Hospitality Management. I love shopping (duh), fashion blogging, watching old movies, and volunteering at animal shelters and other charities! My favorite meal at the house is obviously spaghetti and meatballs, I'm from New Jersey. I'm really looking forward to the New Member Retreat and other retreats so I can get to know everyone a little better! And tailgates because it's a fun way to get everyone together and see everyone having fun.

Beta Eta Love and Loyalty Scholarship Winner!

Congratulations to Diana Davenport- the recipient of the 2013 Beta Eta Love and Loyalty Scholarship. Below is a an informal progress report of her studies and activities. She is truly a model of a Real, Strong. Woman....

-Human Resources Management and Business Management double major
-Leadership Certificate through FSU (as many credits as a minor)
- Chapter Relations and Standards Board Executive Member
-FSU Greek Conduct Board Member
-FSU Student Conduct Board Member
-2 Year Dancer in Dance Marathon
-70 hours to the community last semester with the Leadership certificate, volunteering in an urban garden with underprivileged children in Frenchtown, a "food desert" community
-Study Abroad Participant London Summer 2013
-3.45 GPA

She is now entering her major area of study for the School of Business and will be taking Marketing, Business Law, and Organizational behavior to name a few classes she will be enrolled in in the fall. She hopes to enter the business world after graduation and pursue her MBA shortly after.

In her own words

" the scholarship has allowed me to focus on my studies this semester and less on how I am going to afford school. Because I plan to partake in further studies after my undergraduate degree, I aim to be as frugal as possible during my undergraduate years so that I will go into my MBA debt-free. I am so blessed to have Alpha Chi Omega sisters who understand this need and have given me the opportunity to receive assistance from the organization who has already given me so much. My sisters at Florida State are my support system, my family, and my strength; this scholarship has shown me there are sisters who I have never had the opportunity to meet who are giving me even more support than I could imagine. The bond of Alpha Chi Omega extends far past your chapter, college, or state. It is seen in across the country in every generation and in every heart it touches. The love and bond of our sisters enables us to extend helping hands to those in need and I cannot wait to be able to extend the same opportunity to sisters in the future. "

Thank you to all of the alumnae and Alpha Chi Omegas that have contributed to the Beta Eta Love and Loyalty fund.

Earth Day Clean Up!

For Earth Day, we wanted to demonstrate our appreciation for nature and what is given to us. As a KROM (Keep Recruiting Our Members) event, a group of us picked up trash after dinner around the Alpha Chi Omega house outside. Although picking up trash doesn't seem like the most fun thing to do, with our sisters beside us we had a great time! In doing this activity, I believe we became more aware of our future actions to litter and to gain more respect for our home. Summer is soon approaching and as we all go our separate ways for the next few months, we know we will be coming back to a beautiful home inside and out. We hope to keep our home as clean as it can be from now on!

Dance Marathon 2013!

By Catalina Quintana

After a year of hard work, volunteering and fundraising for Children’s Miracle Network at Shands Hospital for Children and Florida State University’s College of Medicine Pediatric Outreach Program, we are happy to announce that Alpha Chi Omega and our partners, the gentlemen of Chi Phi Fraternity, raised over $50,000 and placed second at Dance Marathon this year.

Dance Marathon at FSU is the largest DM in the Southeast, and raised over $701,000 this year, a 20% increase from last year’s total. The event was held on March 22-24 at the Leon County Civic Center where students pledged to stand for one of two 20 hour shifts “for the kids.” This event was the culmination of year-long efforts to raise money and fundraise.

We are so proud of all of the women in our chapter who participated to make this happen.

Dancer Representatives Janet Parry and Sydney Botkin organized and informed the chapter of Dance Marathon events all year long and rallied for active participation. When Sydney had to step down in Fall due to being elected to the executive board, Janet stepped up to the plate and led the AXO dancers to success with leadership and determination, working with Chi Phi to set up creative fundraisers and to participate actively in all events.

Chelsea Swan and Catalina Quintana were elected to be on the Overall Committee for Dance Marathon as the Finance Chair and Marketing Chair, respectively. These women helped plan the entire event, invested countless hours throughout the year, and remained at the event for over 40 hours. They were even invited to the Dance Marathon Leadership Convention in 2012!

Kelly Palmer and Libby Pace were elected as Assistants to the Overall Committee for the Community Events Chair and Marketing Chair, respectively. These women were a huge aid in planning the event and stayed at the event for over 40 hours as well!

We also had an outstanding group of committee members from the chapter who volunteered their time at the event to assist with any and every task that was needed of them. These philanthropic women are: Alyssa Farrell, Simone Torres, Jane Guemmer, Tia Balthrop, and Lauren Wood Lindsey Davidson, Keely Finnegan, and more.

The spirit of Dance Marathon is embodied by the Morale Captains who are responsible for maintaining the energy of the dancers who tire after so many hours on their feet. Their captivating energy and outstanding personalities is what distinguished them over hundreds of applicants. Thanks to our morale captains Chelsea Moyle, Brooke Swilley, Corine Samaras, Kendall Scarlett, and Julia Welling.

Recruitment info for Alumnae...

a message from HQ..

Alpha Chi Omega alumnae:

As formal recruitment for fall 2013 approaches, here is a brief review of Alpha Chi Omega's legacy policy. We wish to provide you this information so that you are able to assist potential legacies as they enter into formal recruitment, as well as better understand the policies regarding legacies of Alpha Chi Omega.

Questions? Contact Jen Patterson, Associate Director-Recruitment, or Gina Fox, Assistant Director-Lifetime Engagement.

Our Policies

As outlined in the Polices of Alpha Chi Omega Fraternity, the legacy policy states:

R7 Legacy
A legacy to Alpha Chi Omega is a sister, daughter, granddaughter or great-granddaughter of a member. The Alpha Chi Omega member and her family member define their legacy relationship, i.e. step relations, blended families, etc. Alpha Chi Omega values the relationship between a legacy and an alumna member. Chapters are regularly educated regarding the national legacy policy. Additionally, alumnae members are encouraged to prepare legacies to meet the standards of membership set forth by the national organization and local chapter.

R7.1 Preferred Candidate for Membership
An undergraduate legacy who meets membership standards and eligibility requirements is considered a preferred candidate and:

[a] Is invited to the first invitational round of events during the formal recruitment process.
[b] Is invited to at least one recruitment event in an informal or continuous recruitment process.

R7.2 Placement on Final Bid List
A legacy who attends a formal recruitment preference event is placed on the first bid list by the collegiate chapter.


Membership Selection

While legacies are not guaranteed membership in an Alpha Chi Omega collegiate chapter, all collegiate chapters welcome the opportunity to meet Alpha Chi Omega legacies. It is our intent to educate both alumnae and collegians about the importance of inviting legacies to membership.

It is always difficult when a legacy gets released during recruitment, but as long as the chapter follows the national policy, the final decision of membership selection is the informed responsibility of the collegiate chapter. Recruitment can be a difficult and stressful process, particularly on large campuses—there are often as many legacies going through recruitment as the chapter will have spots in quota. While our legacy policies and our recruitment procedures are national level policies, membership selection is a chapter-level decision, which is truly made by the collegiate members at that time.

Long before it is time to submit any recommendations to a collegiate chapter, alumnae have the privilege and responsibility of helping to grow Alpha Chi Omega’s membership in the following ways:

Promoting Alpha Chi Omega as an active part of her life. Doing so will increase the name recognition and familiarity of Alpha Chi Omega to legacies and other potential new members prior to recruitment.
Increasing the strong reputation of Alpha Chi Omega by identifying and connecting with young women who would make valuable additions to our membership.
Educating legacies and other potential new members regarding Alpha Chi Omega’s standards and values, as well as privileges of membership.

Legacy Webinar

For more information on legacies going through formal recruitment, please join Jen Patterson, Associate Director-Recruitment, and Gina Fox, Assistant Director-Lifetime Engagement, on Tuesday, April 9, 2013, at 9:00 p.m. (EST) for the legacy webinar. This webinar will provide alumnae with information regarding legacies participating in the formal recruitment process. We will review Alpha Chi Omega policies, give attendees a deeper understanding of the recruitment process, and help prepare members who may have legacies going through recruitment this year or in the future. Register here for this webinar.

Membership Recommendation

When the time comes, it is the responsibility of alumnae to utilize the Membership Recommendation Form to make the chapter aware that a legacy or other potential member will be participating in recruitment. All alumnae are encouraged to complete this form for any relative or friend who will be participating in recruitment. To send a recommendation (the preferred way to notify a chapter of a legacy or friend), you will need to register and log into alphachiomega.org. Then, simply click on "Recommend a Member" located on the homepage. This will take you to the Membership Recommendation Form and recruitment directory, which contains the recruitment contact information for all collegiate chapters.


Please be aware that Alpha Chi Omega has updated the Membership Recommendation Form for 2013. Be sure to use the updated form when writing recommendations for potential new members.  If you are writing one for Beta Eta chapter of Alpha Chi Omega.. be sure to mail to 518 West park Avenue Tallahassee FL 32301 Attention CRIC

We encourage you to share this message with other Alpha Chi Omega alumnae whose email addresses may not be in our database.

Alpha Chis and Florida Public Relations Association

By Alex Whitaker
Last month, the FSU student chapter of the Florida Public Relations Association traveled to New York City for our spring professional development trip. Several Beta Eta sisters are members of this organization, which sister, Brooke Swilley, leads as President. On our trip, we visited four high profile PR agencies; Weber Shandwick, Ruder Finn, Ketchum, and Hunter. Through our interactions at these agencies, we learned more about the PR agency as well as had the opportunity to make personal connections.

In addition to the professional aspects of the trip, we also had a lot of free time to explore the city. Famous landmarks, world class dining, and even a little bit of exploration that was off the beaten path were all on the agenda. All in all, we had a wonderful trip that not only helped us to grow professionally but brought us closer together as sisters.

Alumnae Spotlight- Lauren Hodde

Below is a great recap from NM '03 Alumnae, Lauren Hodde. She recently went on a mission trip, spending most her time in Chimbote, which is six hours north of Lima. We asked her to give a recap of her experience for our Alumnae Spotlight

We stayed at a parish that was on the outskirts of town, where they are just now installing roads and sidewalks.  On a typical day, it's normal to see donkey carts pulling produce.  The unemployment rate is high after the fishing industry became overrun and changes in fishing due to El Nino.  Many families are just trying to survive.

We partnered with an organization called Friends of Chimbote, http://friendsofchimbote.org/, which have been successful at slowly growing the economy by creating job opportunities.  Partnering with this organization was extremely helpful, they are local and could tell us the biggest needs in the town.  I was led by the Go Fish team, which are amazing individuals that have been going back and serving Chimbote for nearly twenty years. 

One of the best parts of my trip was the first two days that we spent demolishing, then rebuilding a house for a very grateful family of 6 that was living in unthinkable conditions prior.  Cockroaches and bugs overran their 10' x 40' home.  Within a few days their housing was drastically improved, and the mother kept crying and saying how we would be in her heart forever.  This is a moment that will also remain in mine.  Ive attached her photo below.  In total, all of the teams were able to restore and/or rebuild six homes.

The third day we spent with men and women at a prison and later visiting a hospital.  The hospital serves a majority of low income families, many of which are unable to afford their medical expenses and/or prescriptions, especially since patients are required to pay up front before any surgeries or procedures.  As a group, we were able to bless 14 families that were unable to pay their financial expenses.  It was amazing, and a few lives were saved including a mother and her baby that needed an emergency c-section.  We were also so blessed to have a priest on the trip that has a rock n roll spirit, which proved highly valuable in the prison!  The inmates had an incredible time listening to him jam out and their spirits were completely different after being uplifted.

The last few days we spent time with the neighborhood children, 50 of which are disabled.  We were able to bring them to the beach and feed them lunch, which was such a treat since many of them are unable to see much outside their neighborhood.  They were so joyful as they played freely in the water and sand.  We also held a fiesta, where we provided over 500 people with a hot meal and lots of dancing!  The remainder of the food was provided to soup kitchens and will serve a meal to approximately  900-1000 people.

Again, I want to thank your encouragement and support. I have such amazing friends and family- seriously you are incredible!  Be on the lookout for more photos I'll be posting on Facebook soon!

Until my next adventure,
Lauren

Sisterhood Retreat 2013

The week of March 1-3 we went to Greenville, South Carolina for our Sisterhood Retreat! We left Friday afternoon and made our way to Asbury Hills Camp and Retreat Center. We stayed in cabins along a trail in groups of about 10 sisters per cabin. Saturday morning we woke up bright and early to snow! It was a beautiful sight to see and we all bundled up then started our day filled with many activities! We split up into six groups and all rotated between different activities which included hiking beautiful trials, the Giant Swing, the Alpine Tower, the low ropes course, the rock climbing wall,  and the Leap of Faith.

The hiking trials were along a lake and in the distance we could see the mountain tops. The Giant Swing consisted of one sister being harnessed in and the rest of the group worked together to pull her up fifty feet in the air. She then released herself and swung through the air! It was a great time and everyone loved doing it. The Alpine Tower was a sixty feet tower combination of rock climbing and ropes with a platform at the top. Once we conquered the tower and got to the top, it was a beautiful view of the mountains of South Carolina.  The low ropes course was a team building activity in which communication and team work were used. First, we worked as a group to move numerous small objects with the use of one hook. We communicated with each other and moved various ropes as a team to move the hook and pick up the items. Next, we completed an activity in which we walked on wires leaning against another sister. We had to trust each other and there were many laughs exchanged. At the rock climbing wall, sisters held each other’s rope as they made their way up the wall. We helped each other by shouting out tips on where to place our hands and feet and motivate girls to make it to the top. The Leap of Faith was exactly what it sounds like! Harnessed in, we climbed up a twenty foot pole and then jump off it and hit a bell. 

After a long and exciting day, we had dinner and a bonfire with s’mores! Everyone bundled up, huddled the fire, and had a great time. Overall, the weekend was a great success and everyone enjoyed it! We all got to face our fears in attempting the activities and help each other overcome them. We also had down time in which we were able to share laughs and connect with sisters.

Alpha Chi Omega State Day 2013

On Saturday, February 23 the executive board of Alpha Chi Omega attended Florida State Day 2013. At this event executive boards from all seven Florida chapters attended. The day started out with check in and a nice breakfast in which everyone was able to mingle and introduce themselves to women from different chapters. The program officially started at 9 AM with a presentation about our individual strengths. Before everyone came to State Day, we were asked to complete STRENGTHSQUEST, which is a personality test.  The speaker, Rosalie Carpenter, was fantastic! During the presentation we had the opportunity to talk with women from other chapters as well as from our own chapter about our strengths. By completing this exercise we all learned so much about each other and this will really help all of the executive boards work better together as a team.  

Once the presentation on strengths was over, we had the pleasure of meeting the granddaughter of Nellie Gamble Childe, one of the founders of Alpha Chi Omega! It was such an amazing opportunity and truly fascinating to hear her speak about Nellie. After that excitement was done the day continued in full force. For the remainder of the day, everyone split up into three breakout sessions that were each around an hour long. State Day prided itself in that it was not another conference in which all we talked about was Alpha Chi for the entire day. Therefore, the sessions focused more on topics that would help sisters improve themselves and then be able to bring these improvements back to their chapters. The sessions ranged from topics on social media, personal finance, representing the real you, conflict management, and more! At the end of the day, everyone gathered together again and there were raffle prizes given away and the winners of the silent auction were announced. Overall, State Day was a wonderful experience and everyone took a great amount away with them that they can bring to their chapters!

 

Paint-A-Pot

On Tuesday, February 19^th, we had a KROM (Keep Recruiting Our Members) event at the on campus pottery center, Paint-A-Pot. February is MacDowell Month, a time for Alpha Chis to celebrate the fine arts as a part of our heritage. Thirteen girls came out to paint a piece of pottery of their choice. For many of the girls it was their first time to Paint-A-Pot, a Florida State must do activity on campus. We had a great time together painting, listening to music and catching up!

-Lindsey D

 

 

 

 

Campus Wide Risk Management

Campus Wide Risk Management with Speaker Lori Hart - January 16, 2013

Sororities and fraternities both have problems but don't always know how to solve them in the correct ways. People outside Greek life have bad stereotypes for us: unintelligent, promiscuous, superficial, drunk, etc. We need to stop contradicting ourselves and make people see us differently. We have to be willing to change. The best way to change things is to have real conversations with each other instead of talking behind each others backs and calling each other to standards. We all must contribute by changing ourselves and helping change sisters for the better in some way.

Lori Hart, the speaker, did an amazing job of communicating with us. She got her points across about everything mentioned in the previous paragraph, but she also had the entire audience laughing the majority of time. She emphasized that as chapters we need to try and get to the root of each sister and make her love and appreciate the organization. Lori even made a shout out to the Alpha Chi sisters in the audience saying that she loves our motto of "Real. Strong. Women." and feels we live up to it! Listening to everything Lori had to say was very beneficial and will help our chapter grow and improve.

Alpha Chi Omega Leadership Academy 2013

This blog was written by Chelsea Hogan, our VP Ritual and Fraternity Appreciation.

Alpha Chi Omega Leadership Academy 2013 was easily one of the most enlightening and enjoyable experiences I have participated in since becoming an Alpha Chi. When I joined Alpha Chi Omega I thought to myself, “Wow, I have 175 new sisters!” Little did I realize I have well over 800 collegiate sisters. Throughout the duration of the conference I found sisters at other chapters who I can now continue to seek the heights with. This conference was more than just knowing and learning our ritual, it was about connecting with sisters and realizing that we may all not look the same or speak the same but we all share one thing: the bond.

I learned the importance of being a strong leader, contributing to our chapter as much as possible, and other worldly skills such as communicating with different generations. One of the most important lessons I learned while at Leadership Academy was that there is a difference between feeling important and feeling valued. I did not learn this from one of the speakers, but rather from a collegiate sister at the Arizona chapter.  Now each day I think of how I want to make others feel valued, as well as myself.

One of the most memorable moments when Melissa d’Arabian spoke at the opening ceremony. She talked to us about playing the game according to our strengths. Under all of her funny stories and jokes there was real meaning. Later that night Katelyn Trane and I had the pleasure of meeting our national president, Diana Blackwelder. She was so sweet and kind and genuinely excited to meet us and get to know us. Katelyn and I are so grateful we had the opportunity to attend Alpha Chi Omega Leadership Academy 2013. We took away so many fantastic ideas and cannot wait until we have the chance to implement them this year! Thanks again Alpha Chi, you once again have exceeded my expectations.

Holiday Cheer At Alpha Chi

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas at 518 West Park Avenue! Here at the Alpha Chi Omega house, we have been getting in the holiday spirit. This past Sunday, sisters came together and decorated the house with assistance from our house director, Mama Lynn. Cookies and hot chocolate were made and Christmas music was playing to get everyone excited about the holidays!

A Christmas tree is set up in the informal, garland is wrapped around the stair banisters, and wreaths and ribbons fill the foyer and dining room. There is also a menorah in the foyer. Don't worry- we didn't forget to decorate the outside of the house! The front balcony is decorated with lights, garland, and wreathes. Bekah Leake, a senior, painted our large, wooden AXΩ letters with a holiday theme. They look great and we placed them in the front yard!

With all the decorations up, we're ready and excited for this year's holiday season. Last night we had our annual Wacky Tacky Chrismukkah date function. There was food, dancing, and a bonfire. Everyone had a great time. The sisters of Alpha Chi Omega wish everyone a wonderful holiday season!

Walk a Mile in Her Shoes

                                                                                    

On Sunday, November 18, the ladies of Alpha Chi Omega hosted the first event of the school year to bring awareness to domestic violence!

"Walk a Mile in Her Shoes" is a fun filled event, in which male participants complete various obstacles courses, wearing heels the entire time.

Men from all over FSU came out in teams of 5 to Heritage Grove apartments to support our first fall philanthropy. The lawn was decorated with purple balloons and a stand of purple cupcakes, representing the color of domestic violence awareness. In the end, a trophy would be given to the winners of the tournament. Of course we provided the heels, but they brought their skills to run in heels with them!

"Walk a Mile in Her Shoes" is an amazing opportunity for men to raise awareness in our community about the causes and effects of domestic violence. A huge thanks goes out to everyone who participated in this years event! 

Congratulations to the brothers of Pi Kappa Alpha for winning the tournament!

Domestic Violence Awareness Week 2012

Benefiting the Refuge House

Last week was Beta Eta's DVA Week 2012. We hosted many events to support the fight against Domestic Violence. All proceeds benefited the women's local Refuge House:

 http://www.refugehouse.com/

This Sunday is the annual Walk a Mile in Her Shoes event in Heritage Grove. All of the money raised by the men participating in the relay race (in heels) will also go directly to the women's Refuge House!

FSU Homecoming Week 2012

Alpha Chi Omega, Kappa Sigma & Phi Beta Sigma

Last week was a busy week full of pomping, dancing, singing etc. Here is the link to a video from Tuesday night's Skit Night at the moon. We placed SECOND!

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=10151293150890953&set=vb.724730952&type=3&theater

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We also took part in the Biggest Fan on Campus Competition. Kelly Shemansky & Nicole Chmura submitted a video and performed on Thursday night at SpearIt Night! 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=r6UrqQQWcLE

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 We had a Nerds vs. Jocks social with our Kappa Sigma Homecoming partners on Wednesday night at Red Rocks - SO MUCH FUN!

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 We have been working SO hard on our float for this year with the FSU Circus theme! So proud of how it turned out :)

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 HAPPY HOMECOMING FROM AXO

FSU PARENT'S WEEKEND 2012

This weekend was a great success! It was an absolute pleasure having Alpha Chi families come to visit the house and enjoy all that FSU has to offer. 

 Alpha Chi hosted a happy hour for the parents to mix and mingle at the Four Points Sheraton on Friday. For gameday on Saturday, we hosted a BBQ at the house - GO NOLES! On Sunday, we had the parents come to the house for brunch and a Sorority Spirit Trunk show.

WE LOVE YOU AXO PARENTS & ALL THAT YOU DO TO SUPPORT YOUR DAUGHTER :)
 


This week we also had big/ little reveal! If you'd like to check out some photos from that night visit:

https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10152205808585473.935785.228227850472&type=3

RITUAL MOMENT

by Kerstein “KP” Perez (Iota Phi Chapter) “Words get in the way.” I’ve caught that line in different songs by artists ranging from Jewel, to Trace Adkins to Gloria Estefan. I even remember it in an episode of “Gossip Girl.” I’m sure I’ve seen it in a book. You’re wondering how this lyric, quote, or saying relates to ritual. Well, sometimes words do get in the way – especially the wrong words! Let’s focus on making sure we’re using proper terminology so the incorrect words don’t get in the way of progress. It’s important that we’re in the know so we can support and correct the conversation, especially since many collegiate chapters are in the midst of recruitment season. Here’s a handy chart to help remember which words pave the way (right) and which words get in the way (left). Pledge New Member Pledge Class Member Class or MC Rush Recruitment First Degree of Initiation New Member Ceremony Second Degree of Initiation Initiation Ceremony New Member Stick Pin New Member Pin